All tagged Christmas planning

Making Changes So Christmas is Less Stress and More Joy

I know it is only August and Christmas seems very far off, but based on how I celebrated last year's Christmas timeline, this year it is going to come even quicker.

Let me explain. First off, I LOVE Christmas. It is absolutely my most favorite holiday. It was always a big deal in my family growing up, for both my mom and dad, and their parents as well. So there is a lot of nostalgic baggage that comes with the yule tide festivities. I have always tried to not build up Christmas too much in my mind, in terms of expectations. I knew I would never be able to recapture that childhood magic no matter how Martha Stewart I got, so I really tried just to not stress out too much and the days and weeks prior to Christmas unfold organically.

Loving the Holidays but Surrendering to the Bah Humbug

Let's just cut to the chase. 2009 has been a shitty year for me. So shitty that when I am at my worst moments, what I am most grateful for, is simply life itself. Yes, I have many other things to be thankful for, too: a loving husband, supportive family, a roof over my head, and money in the bank. But those things often become diluted in the melancholy abyss of my life's current tragedy. My one refuge for the year was going to be the holidays. I LOVE the holidays. Back in mid-October, I declared to Andrew, "I am going to get everything done for Christmas by December 1, so I can simply enjoy the